Thursday, December 12, 2013

2 days…2 more beautiful towns

Another week..more wonderful adventures!

Two days, two beautiful towns:

one bitterly cold, the other clear and bright
one on a weekend, the other a school strike
one a visit to a 2000-year old fort
the other, one of France's oldest active fishing ports….

You know I had no intention of this rhyming, but when I wrote the words, it just happened. I promise..no more poems!

Saturday - to Carcassone


We were so happy to have returned to Carcassone last weekend, after a fleeting visit during summer enroute to the Dordogne, at which time we caught just a glimpse of it's historic La Cite Medievale.

The fort of La Cite was originally built in 500BC by Celtics, strategically located at the intersection of two historic trade routes, from the Atlantic to the Mediterranean Sea, and from Spain to the centre of France. When the Romans conquered Gaul in around 100BC, a newer stronger fort was built, and it is these remains that still stand today.

The fort is truly majestic, and had it not been absolutely freezing on that Saturday, I'm sure would have seemed almost fairy-tale like. It's structure consists of 52 towers, and is surrounded by 3km of ramparts. It's stature, on a hill overlooking the countryside of the Languedoc region and the Pyranees in the distance, is awe-inspiring and almost intimidating. I'm not actually sure of how many battles occurred there, but as we walked around, we could certainly imagine a few, almost William Wallace-like conflicts and bloodshed.






 

We loved just walking and absorbing the history and feel of la Cite….





…..even a little modelling was done on the ancient ramparts. Work it kids, work it…






A highlight, or perhaps not, while touring inside La cite (which just to break the illusion you might currently have, is filled with cafes, hotels, restaurants and museums) was our visit to Le Musee d'Inquisition, definitely an M-rated event, yet offering a child entry.

I have never seen such a vivid and brutal display of artefacts, images and descriptions showing the many forms of torture used during the era of church-led inquisitions. I literally had to cover the children's eyes and redirect them to another part of the exhibition, only to come across an equally barbaric image. They happily closed their eyes and were led around by me, as I tried to make a game of it, find the exit and ensure they didn't see the images. So let's backtrack..a highlight…not, but historic and true, yes!

It was incredibly disturbing (children have come away unscathed), and incomprehisible that this type of fantatic leadership and barbarity really existed.

The device below intrigued me though, and was one of the less horrific..an instrument of torture for bad musicians, another for women who talked too much, or apparently just annoyed their husbands...a tad subjective don't you think? The others I shall not describe..think of the worst thing you can, and you won't be far off!





However, not all doom and gloom you will be pleased to know, chocolat chaud et beacuoup de bonbon were enjoyed by all!


 



Au revoir Carcassone!…..off to the (warm) train we go!




 



 


Thursday - to Sete

Careof a teachers strike last Thursday, we had a 2 day break in the middle of the week, as there is no school on Wednesdays in most parts of France…this may be about to change, hence the strike!

It seems the teachers and le Syndicat pour les Ecoles Primaires, are not keen on the idea of introducing a morning session of school on Wednesdays, even though it would mean shortening the school hours on the other 4 days...currently school finishes at 4.45pm, with the sun starting to set before we even get home.

The Minister of Education is arguing that morning education is more in line with the biology of children, ie.. their brains function better in the mornings. Might be true, but it's an argument that doesn't seem to be winning much support. Having said that, I don't think many arguments would gain much support…my feeling is that no school Wednesday is french tradition, and the french are great lovers of tradition! Anyway, watch this space.

But the upside of the strike, was an extra day to explore for us! So to Sete we went. We had passed Sete several times on the train, and considered visiting, but after learning that it had been established by Louis XIV in the 17th century, and that today it is France's largest Mediterranean fishing port, we were determined to go. It was like stepping into a different fish-smelling world, only 20 minutes by train from Montpellier.




Determined to seize the day, and make it back to Montpellier in time for my 1.30pm french lesson, we set off on an 8.20am train. While that may not seem particularly early to you, be mindful that for the last 14 weeks or so, we really haven't had to be up before then! A slight exaggeration, but with school only 20 metres down the road and not starting until 8.50am, our morning return has become somewhat 'relaxed'. My body and I will be in a for a rude shock when I rejoin my running pals twice a week at 6am!

In arriving into Sete before 9am, we had the wonderful fortune of seeing it almost at its best I think, with the early morning sun still reflecting on the buildings and water, it really was picture perfect.

Prior to visiting Sete, I had read that there are so many boats, that one would think every second resident owns one…that was not an understatement. They are literally everywhere, with both sides of the canal jam-packed with fabulous and colourful vessels, extending along to the main harbour. Will asked whether some of the boats would travel to Monaco..I replied that most of the them probably wouldn't be allowed into Monaco. They were truly humble fishing boats, some resembling large dinghys, much loved and much used! Not quite the luxury cruisers Will had been dreaming about since our trip to the Cote d'Azur.






As we ventured through the quaint winding narrow streets of Sete (a highlight in most of the towns we have visited), we chanced across the Sete cemetery, an absolutely beautiful resting place overlooking the port and Mediterranean Sea.




The cemetery has the honour of being the resting place of Paul Valery, a famous poet who lived in the south of France, and was born and raised in Sete. One of Montpellier's university campus' is named after him. As we walked toward the cemetery I explained to the children about Paul Valery, the connection with Montpellier etc…we have had many 'pearls' come out of Sam's mouth during this trip, but his sigh, followed by "Oh, poor Valery" was a highlight!

One of Paul Valery's most famous works is based on this cemetery, and is absolutely beautiful, entitled Le Cimiterie Marin or The Graveyard by the Sea. Here is just the first verse, but I have added the link as well, as definitely worth a longer look:

Le Cimiterie Marin

Ce toit tranquille, où marchent des colombes, 
Entre les pins palpite, entre les tombes; 
Midi le juste y compose de feux 
La mer, la mer, toujours recommencee 
O récompense après une pensée 
Qu'un long regard sur le calme des dieux! 

Quel pur travail de fins éclairs consume 
Maint diamant d'imperceptible écume, 
Et quelle paix semble se concevoir! 
Quand sur l'abîme un soleil se repose, 
Ouvrages purs d'une éternelle cause, 
Le temps scintille et le songe est savoir. 

The Graveyard By The Sea 

This quiet roof, where dove-sails saunter by,
Between the pines, the tombs, throbs visibly;
Impartial noon patterns the sea in flame 
That sea forever starting and re-starting
When thought has had its hour, oh how rewarding 
Are the long vistas of celestial calm!
What grace of light, what pure toil goes to form 
The manifold diamond of the elusive foam,
What peace I feel begotten at that source!
When sunlight rests upon a profound sea,
Time's air is sparkling, dream is certainty, 
Pure artifice both of an eternal Cause.
(http://www.poemhunter.com/best-poems/paul-valery/the-graveyard-by-the-sea/)

The cemetery is home also to many Sete fishermen and their families. Some of the gravesites were so elaborate and truly honoured those who had toiled for generations at sea. As we admired many of the symbols and tributes (some tearfully), I asked the kids what symbol they would put on my gravesite, and Will's pretty immediate reply was "a devil's fork"…oh well,  guess I shouldn't have got him up so early! We all laughed as the other 2 thought it was hysterical..while closer to the truth perhaps than an angel with a harp, I'm sure he'll still call me when he's older!




From the cemetery, we made our way down toward the main harbour of Sete, passing the Theatre de la Mer, the Theatre by the Sea, perfectly positioned overlooking the sparkling Mediterranean. It was formerly Fort Saint Pierre, built between 1743-1746, apparently following an attempted invasion by the English in 1710. It is now host to many spectacles and events, including the Sete Jazz Festival, and I'm sure many English performers. 


As we walked, it was a time and a town just to absorb, with nothing really to do but watch, smell and listen. Or if you're 10 or under, just run, giggle and annoy your mother! While we didn't feel it was appropriate to take photos of fishermen in action, which I now regret, there were several fishing boats returning from their night out, blarry-eyed fishermen enjoying a chat and cigarette, cleaning their boats, their nets, their catch. I couldn't tell what they had caught, but Will assured me it was "fillets". To do list..take Will fishing when we get back to Melbourne..ok Grandpa?!











We only had a fleeting visit here, but it was worth it. Such a living, working gem, so different from its neighbours in the south of France. It's down-to-earth ness, lack of pretention, shops and tourist attractions (except for the spectacular Mediterranean) actually made this one of the highlights for me.

To Le Syndicat pour les Ecole Primaire…while I support the Minister's argument and hope Wednesday mornings are introduced in les Ecole Primaire in the future, we thank you for the day off school!





The fruits of their labour




Thursday, December 5, 2013

Sasha et Vincent - une Histoire d'amour

I have been planning on writing this post for a while now, about the very gorgeous and cute (mignon, I recall from an earlier blog) romance between Sasha and a french boy at school, called Vincent. As I started to write, I suggested to the kids that we could compose a poem, and Will's reply….Sasha and Vincent sitting in a tree, K I S S I N G. Not quite what I had in mind.

This romance deserves more than a childish rhyme, as this boy has persevered and pursued, and for his efforts alone, we should come up with something a little more romantic. Am thinking of something more along Shakesperean lines, but drawing a blank:

Sasha, Sasha, where for out thou Sasha?…has possibilities.

Vincent is a very handsome boy, with straight brown hair, blue eyes behind Austin Powers-style glasses, and often with a scarf and ankle/basketball style boots. In all, Trés Groovy baby!


He was recently voted D'élege de classe, for Sasha's grade, CM1. I have copied below the leaflet he handed out to the class..I would have voted for him too!

 







And just an aside, "J'aimerais aussi mettre des portes aux toilettes des garçons parce que les petites et les petits jouent dedans"…translation, I had no idea that the boys' toilets didn't have doors! Only after reading this, did Will and Sam explain that there are no doors (hence no privacy) in the boys' toilets and that both boys and girls freely run in and out of the bathrooms during recess and lunch. It's not only the big things that are different in France!


Now back to Vincent...I think what has captivated us most about him, is his pride and confidence. While shy to meet and talk with, he has shown no hesitation in sharing his love for Sasha with his parents, who have helped him create and write some of his masterpieces I'm sure, and his friends, who have on occasion been the bearer of Vincent's gifts to Sasha. While I remember some kiss chasey in primary school, I can't imagine that there would be many young Australian boys willing and able to declare their love so freely and unabashed. More and more, I do love this country!

Here are a few pearls from Vincent, that Sasha would like to share, and that careof this blog, will create such wonderful memories for us in the future:

It all started…with a small poem, sadly since misplaced, by the take-it-in-her-stride Sasha,

When the rain falls, you are the rainbow in the sky. The bar was set very high that day!

Followed not long afterwards by a very simple, "I love Sasha, you are beautiful Sasha"


Next, a love heart with,"Je t'aime" together with another verse, that he even gave a title: 

Quand je te vois: Quand je te vois, je vois des yeux comme etoiles et tu es le plus belle

When I see you, I see your eyes like the stars, and you are more beautiful.

Ah, sigh! 


A few gifts followed: A bracelet, a rose pulled from his backpack at school, the stem wrapped in foil.


Starting to get a little more serious and to the point, he wrote:

"You are beautiful. I love you. You are my girlfriend". No hidden messages there.



More words written (again in french), her name drawn creatively across coloured paper, were delivered to Sasha:


Some of those words:

Les cheveux sont comme les etoiles, qui brillant dans le ciel

Your hair is like the stars, which shine in the sky

Te es 100000 plus belle que le monde entier

You are 100,000 times more beautiful than the entire world

Dans mon coeur il y'a aura toujours une place

In my heart there will always be a place

L'amour ça sent a être toi Sasha

Love like this feels to be you Sasha…or something like that



Most recently, Vincent made Sasha an origami paper frog, with the inevitable question "Est-ce-que tu m'aime? Je t'aime". Credit to Vincent, as he had been very patient.


Feeling guilty now as I reflect writing this blog, Sasha had yet to reply formally to Vincent's attentions, other than a polite thank you and blush on receiving all of the above. I think she and I were both uncertain as to how to respond, and we probably expected his attentions to stop…as you have gathered by now, we were mistaken there!

So we agreed it was time. Continuing the origami theme, Sasha made Vincent a beautiful coloured 'chatterbox'. Do you remember those as a child? It has 4 quadrants, and you move each one depending on the number on the corner. You then move it again, matching the number of letters to the colour of the quadrant, eg. 4 times for pink. At the end of these 2 turns, the recipient nominates a colour or number, and the flap is lifted to reveal a statement, word, question etc.

Sasha decided she would use the 4 quadrants to thank Vincent, and let him know her (so far hidden) feelings. She wrote:

"Tu es tres gentil"

"Merci pour tous les cadeaux"

"Tu es tres cool"…and finally and most importantly for Vincent,

"Je t'aime"

I was so proud of her for doing this for him, and having the courage to present it to him at school. In classic Vincent style, he walked out of school that afternoon firmly holding his treasured chatterbox, and regularly lifting the flaps to re-read Sasha's words. Unrequited love no more!!

Over the past few weeks I have met Vincent's parents at school pickup, who are quite intrigued by this young Australian girl who has captured their boy's heart. When I told his Mum the other day, that our last day of school would be Friday 13th December..she stilled, almost shocked, "you mean not the 22nd"…paused again, thinking. Next I heard her talking with Sasha about swapping Skype addresses. I was rather relieved it wasn't a dinner invitation!

As I was putting the finishing touches to this blog, Sasha just happened to mention, "oh that's right, Vincent gave me something else on Monday"…well that 'something else', while a little hard to decipher Vincent's 9-year old but very lovely french handwriting, almost made me cry:

Je t'aime Sasha

I love you Sasha

J'aurai toujours une place dans mon coeur reviendra tu 

I will always have a place in my heart for you

Je me t'oublierai jamais et tes yeux sont très beaux

I will never forget you and your beautiful eyes

Merci d'être mon amoureuse

Thank you for being my love 

Wow!!

I hope they do Skype or better yet, write to each other. But even if they don't, this whole experience has created some wonderfully memorable moments, that we truly didn't expect when we imagined our time here.

Vincent has also set a very high benchmark as far as young suitors go, that I can't imagine will be reached or passed in Sasha's beaux yeux for a long time to come!


Now for La Piece de Resistance…a limerick written with the children, while having lunch today in the beautiful port town of Sete. Not quite Shakespeare, but Vincent and Sasha are children after all. Hope you like it, as we had fun writing it. Enjoy!


There was a young girl called Sasha
Who went to school in France
Where she met a young boy called Vincent
Who fell into a loveable trance

Gifts he gave and poems he wrote
Of love, stars and Sasha's beaux yeux
He pursued and adored this Australian girl
avec le brillant cheveux

A love unrequited was soon returned
Vincent was so happy and appeased
But alas all too late, as so soon
Sasha was to return overseas

A final note followed to bid Sasha adieu
And let her know she'd stay close to his heart
And that he would never forget his first love
Even though they are oceans apart